Four reasons not to cheat within relationship or a marriage, is an article that as long overdue. Perhaps they will persuade a thoughtless partner from acting without thinking with their brain, and using to fire within their loins as their brain.
Some people never stop to realize just what having an affair really means. Cheating on a innocent spouse or partner can really harm a relationship, in fact, it may totally, end the relationship you currently have with your innocent spouse or partner, in your choosing to have, an affair may cause bodily harm to you.
Sexually transmitted diseases
The reason I say an affair may cause bodily harm to you, is not because your innocent spouse or partner may beat you senseless, but you could pick up a whole bunch of sexually transmitted diseases that can make you very sick, or perhaps even kill you.
If you ever taken any kind of health class in school then you know about the sexually transmitted diseases, and who knows what the person you are thinking about having an affair with has slept with.
That is right you will blow your budget, your savings and you will no longer be financially secure if you choose to have an affair on your innocent spouse or partner. Of your budget will be blown if you choose to have an affair, because you will be buying Christmas or Valentine presents for two instead of one.
If your innocent spouse or partner finds out about this affair, your budget will be screwed because you will most likely be paying a lawyer for your half of the divorce or palimony suit. Let us face it the innocent partner in all of this more than likely will empty your joint checking account, and has full legal right to do so.
Fool that is you
If you choose to have an affair on your innocent spouse or a partner, you are at their mercy. Most innocent spouses or partners will seek revenge for the affair. Most of the time this revenge is harmless fun meant to embarrass you but not always. Sometimes the innocent spouse or partner will make you pay in some way for the affair that you had.
You are a fool, to have an affair because you will be giving up something worthwhile in most cases for what amounts to a few months of secretive pleasure. Trust me there are no secrets, and your affair will get back to your innocent spouse or partner. You will not only look like a fool, and you will be at the mercy of the innocent spouse or partner.
Children become liars
If you choose to have an affair, and bribe your children in any form, you were teaching them how to lie and cheat. Telling the children to lie to the innocent spouse or partner, in any form, teaches the children how to lie.
You are then at the mercy of your children, they can more or less dictate to you how often you can sneak out. They learn how to use blackmail very quickly against you.
Look around to before you choose to have an affair because you will be giving up everything, and not just the bad stuff you will also be giving up the good stuff that you have with your spouse or partner. Does it really seem worth it to have that affair know you could lose all of this?
PS. this article was turned down, but I feel it has some good info so I am posting it.